Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Johnny Can't Read




Even in 1950, when I was a student at UNC-Chapel Hill, educators were appalled with the quality of education from the state of North Carolina. I knew the great, late president of the university, Dr Frank Porter Graham; as well as the late, great professor and leader in education, Dr. Guy Phillips. In talking with them, neither could understand why in our advancement with technology, and a higher standard of living, students were getting dumber, less prepared for academics, brazen in their apathy toward achievement. I had just come out of the military, was president of the state's Young Democrats, went to work on the Terry Sanford gubernatorial campaign. I still have copies of political advertisements which helped win him the governor's election in the state and probably helped catapult him to the US Senate and the presidency of Duke University.

When he continuously asked the question, “Why can't Johnny read?” You see, as basic as breathing, every child wants to read. The products of the 'one room country schools' could read. At one time, the New Hanover County High School was considered the best high school in the state. In hiring part-time help, over many years, to assist me in my endeavors I have been absolutely amazed at the recent graduates of that high school who could not read, and could barely write, certainly could not spell. We still come across letters which some of these former students typed for me, which were sent out, and since I am totally blind, did not know their quality and someone will say to me “You don't mean this went out?! It looks like it was done by an elementary student.”

Academics advise me all the time about how much remedial work must be done for college students who are accepted for matriculation. Teaching has become political instead of professional. We hear constant complaints about 'low pay'; my 5th grade teacher was paid $85 a month and she was a marvelous teacher. I look back with great nostalgia at all my teachers, all well prepared for their jobs, probably happy with the money which they received. Many of today's parents, realizing the quality of instruction as well as the psychosis involved in most schools, determine to home-school their children. These are the students of achievement. My mother, with only a 6th grade education, taught her 4 children how to read as she had done with her 6 sisters and brother (her 4 children are all college graduates, never had any academic problems; all with Masters and Doctorates). If a mother who has never been to a teacher's college can home-school her children and are in all ways prepared for college, please, school board members, tell me what has happened to the government schools who subtract from our taxes $5-17,000 per student, for professional education?

I heard a member of the Massachusetts school board say on TV recently, ”In Massachusetts, we should close all public schools and just start over.” Even in Washington, DC, where $17,000 is spent on each student in public school, 1/3 of those entering high school do not graduate. It is difficult enough to survive with a college education, how do parents expect their children to survive without even a high school education; even a very poor high school education. I would be ashamed to be in the field of education, teacher, administration, elected board member, and not have the ability to extend remedial instruction to any student that could not read and write, the fundamentals of all life activities, and find and encourage training courses involving occupations such as cooking, carpentry, mechanics, something of interest to students whereby they can make a living. Does any American citizen have any curiosity about the fact that non-citizens who get across the border are always prepared to make a living? Go to any construction site, and you will find non-citizens working and the owners, who employ these workers at great risk, will tell you that they are their best employees. 1. Work Ethic-On time, ready to give a days work for a days pay 2. Reliable training- prepared to work correctly. 3. Prepared to follow instructions, although a language problem, can hear and see and react.

In North Carolina, as across the country, we have been besieged by “Pre-Kindergarten” programs. After years of these programs, they have been evaluated and it has been found that they have been of little help in the general education program. By the 4th and 5th grade, experts report that there is no difference in those who attended these remedial programs and those who did not. The best pre-1st grade training programs are in the home. It was determined long ago that a child's eyes are not developed enough until the age of 5 to handle the stress of reading and hand-to-eye coordination. Children should be allowed to be children, nurtured, not subjected to regimentation at such an early age. Children should have fun, time for fun.

Rearing children, and it has been done since the beginning of time with more success than today, is largely a matter of common sense. When I heard Dr. Jean Scott, pastor of the University Cathedral in Los Angeles, specify that no child would be allowed to attend church services until the age of 12 and that from the age of 12 until marriage, a family would sit together, children with parents, I thought this was strange, because I attended a small country church as a small child. But, I realize now, I was too young to comprehend the teaching and preaching prepared for adults. In Dr. Scott's church, as well as in most informed churches, children are in church school with children's activities. Why totally turn off your children toward worship and the beauty of Christian teaching by drowning them in doctrine and theology of interest to adults, when they are too young to comprehend any of it? People who have forgotten they were ever children are bothered by their energy.

The first thing I observed, in the Marxist, communist rearing and educating of children, the state takes over at a very early age. The state owns your children, as well as you. Large kindergarten, nursery, elementary school type facilities (in China, called children's palaces) are provided for the communist worker's children in their cradle to casket care. Children of all ages are deposited at the facility each day, where trained workers take over their total development. But, I noticed, that the very young were involved in child interest play and activity. With precision, they know at what age and at what stage of development these children should start dancing, singing, playing with certain instruments and toys, etc. I fully realize that the Marxists embedded in this country's education system are trying to do the same thing. They have forgotten that, scientifically and psychologically, there are planes of developmental achievement. A child can be turned against reading as quickly as one can be turned toward it. Reading is the most rewarding achievement of man. From the males trying to escape an 800 pound sabre-toothed tiger (Smilodon) riding and trying to read messages left by other males, to today's youth trying to read a comic book with a flashlight under the covers after forced bedtime in the modern home, children, of all economic strata, every skin color, every IQ, love to read.

NO ONE IS STUCK WHERE THEY START OUT. It is the written word, whether the conventional book or on the computer screen, that we have our bridge to opportunity transporting us to any economic level of achievement. The world's most brilliant physician, physicist, or parliamentarian started out by being able to comprehend the printed word. Life has become so much better for many of us; 10 million people take cruises every year. We read constantly of the life activities of the rich and famous. With nostalgia, we look back to our early teachers, coaches, those who encouraged us. Even in old age, we romanticize about the 'good ole days'. The days were not that good. There is nothing romantic about a car without A/C or radio. There is nothing romantic about window screens or kerosene heat. There is nothing romantic about paper everything, even drinking cups, or buttons and snaps, before the time of zippers and plastic. There is nothing romantic about one light bulb hanging down from the ceiling in a home or school. There is nothing romantic about black and white film reels and film projectors. There is nothing romantic about crayons and paste. There is nothing romantic about cursive writing with pens and bottled ink.

Common sense has not kept up with technology. Even during a suspected Swine Flu epidemic, in an age of electronic microscopes, the best we can get is advice on hand-washing. Don't these people know that washing your hands is almost useless? The first doorknob or hand rail you touch, the first chair arm or seat you touch, which some other person has used, even in a doctor's office, is covered in germs. In this time of fast food, about the only place most people can afford to eat out, tables are seldom wiped down. Germ laden people have coughed and slobbered all over them. A fright should be illegal citizens in the kitchen. Don't they know salmonella problems can be greatly erased by a cheap water-hose washing these cantaloupes and cucumbers before they are shipped? Don't they know that in a time of suspicious epidemic your drinking water should be boiled, particularly the water in pipes that comes out of a river in which sewage is dumped; and your food should be well cooked. Heat will destroy most germs.

Some sanitary rules, some regimentation in life, is good and expected. When students are polled about their best teacher, it is always the coach. The coach comes from an education economy of rules; he enforces his rules. The coach comes from a background of clothing and showers. The rewards of humankind, unlike the lower animals, is correct clothing and cleanliness. Survival in the 21st Century depends almost entirely on your ability to read and comprehend the written word. whether on tablets of stone (God could read and write) or the computer screen or Kindle screen. Our parents, employers, and neighbors are too busy, too apathetic to encourage people, regardless of age, to bask in the thrill of comprehending the written word; whether God's Holy Word or your local politically-correct newspaper.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Gay Times




In my lifetime, I have seen sexuality come completely out of the closet. It is hard to listen to one news report without hearing long, insensitive declarations about same sex marriage, homosexual activity or heterosexual trapeze acts of some sort.

In high school, I never heard the word homosexual; and I was a very well read young person. At the university, my first introduction to homosexual perversion of any sort came from students who would talk about certain professors. It was all strange to me; I think every young person is in a state of confusion about sexuality because in the Christian home, like drunkenness and other sins, it is just not discussed.

People of class and quality do not become puppets of the news media in trying to entertain one another with tales of torrid behavior. I worked very hard for every dollar and had worked hard for a new pair of brown and white saddle oxfords. I threw away a perfectly good pair of shoes because I heard one of my more affluent and worldly dorm residents say to others who would listen in a “bull session”, “Only 'queers' wear saddle oxfords.” This was my first reality torrent in trying to please other people and gain their acceptance. Young men, like older men, do what they do because they believe what they believe; from a genetic background of the need for acceptance, we mere mortals spend our entire lives attempting to please creatures instead of our creator.

One of the saddest experiences of my life happened with a cousin who I knew was probably gay, even though in appearance, attitude and accomplishments one would never suspect. After college, he became an Air Force officer, then a music graduate student and one of the country's greatest church organists in a large Manhattan church. He had visited me in my home in New York City, even though I never knew him as a young person. Shortly before he died of AIDS, he came to my house on the beach and spent several hours talking to me about his condition and his life. Like most homosexuals, he had lived a life of identity confusion; trying to hold on to God with one hand and Satan with the other. Although of high income accomplishment, he had lost most of his wealth (including his inheritance) by “high living” and “fair weather friends” who because they didn't have money of their own, were glad to spend his.

So with certain death facing him (he lived 2 months after that encounter) he was receiving treatment at a VA facility and died. His sister, his only survivor, called me later and asked, “Where were all the people who had so loved him when he was well and spending money on them?” She said, “There were only 2 people at his funeral service; one cousin and me.”

My cousin, like so many gay males with whom I have talked, never spoke of his father. I have never known a gay male who had a relationship with his father, most only talk of their mothers. I have never known a lesbian female who had a relationship with her mother, she only talks of her father. It is essential, that a son bond with his father. It is essential, that the father share his male interests and experiences with his son. Since most fathers are abrupt and demanding, much less sensitive than the mother, a male child will retreat to the mother unless the father realizes the importance of 'maleness' in a sons life. In primitive cultures, people who do not have psychologists and sociologists advising them on their standards and life activities, I noted that there was always 'maleness' in the camp.

Separate male activity from the female interests that went on with the girls surrounding their mother. The male genetic hunter defending responses must be encouraged by a loving father. Male athletic activities must be encouraged by a loving father. A loving father will not allow his son to be involved in pre-Kindergarten activities where 'girl things' and 'male things' are all mixed together. I understand, that in daycare facilities, unlike it was at one time, boy and girl toys are all mixed; that the boys are encouraged to play with dolls, the girls with trucks. Such early exposure as this is the beginning of the sexual woes of your children.

In spite of the sabotage visited on 'maleness' in childhood and youth, many boys, in spite of molestation, a feminine curriculum, (pursued largely by a predominance of female school teachers) develop as young men.

I assisted the psychiatric department in the Army Hospital (at the WAC Center of the Army). I have never recovered from learning the number of women who were sexually abused as children. 85% of all lesbians were sexually abused as children. Sexual abuse in males is usually a determining factor in their identity crisis. We all know the curiosity, the embarrassment, the sensitivity, in our initial introduction to sex. Even in medical school, most of us were too embarrassed, too sensitive, to even discuss the subjects of homosexuality, perverted sex, or abortion. As young men, most of us would go to a male pharmacist at the drug store for the purchase of contraceptives. Like the pastor, the family doctor hesitated to even talk about sex with anyone. Now, young children are indoctrinated with the condom and cucumber, the morality of abortion, and same sex marriage on every news commentary as well as the classroom. Sex has become more commonplace than the school dance. Like the police officer patrolling the halls replacing prayers and patriotism in the classrooms, schisms of liberal pornography have replaced the solace of scholastic achievement.

Oprah Winfrey and Barbara Walters, buffeted by psychologist associations (APA), promote 'corrective surgery' and 'sex change' instead of Christian counseling and sex satisfaction. For young people distressed into thinking they have the wrong body, the God who made them what they are is ready to guide in the right direction. Instead of distorted surgery reconciling to a distorted mind, extremely expensive, never ending in its questionable results, the end of distortion found in disclosing the truth should be the goal of everyone concerned; parent, pastor, physician, psychologist.

We live at a time, when we expect surgery or a prescription to correct everything. The mind, like the body, has the remarkable ability to heal itself. Throwing gasoline onto a fire in a building, is no way to save it.

The grace of God is sufficient for all our needs. The most marvelous words you will ever read concerning your development and your life are found in Psalm 139. There is nothing in the human genome (23,000 genes) that is ambiguous about your sex. Some have tried to attribute sexual confusion to God's genetic mistake. This problem is adaptation, not genetics; and God, who designed you, who named you, before the foundation of the world, did not intend for you to be confused in your sexuality. Whether a doctor, lawyer, teacher, preacher, Indian chief, all have had confusion with sexuality. Always remember, “And He who sent Me is with Me. The Father has not left Me alone, for I always do those things that please Him.” (John 8:29)

In talking with young gay males, I have been surprised at the number who had experienced the call to the ministry. The Christian church, for many years, like so many human activities, (homosexuality, disability, alcoholism) have not just turned the other cheek but have turned their backs to those in greatest need. Just as long as you are well dressed, well controlled, walk the aisle and sign the card, normal people were acceptable to God's Kingdom. The homosexual community, knowing the hypocrisy of the redemption in Christian churches, sought refuge in churches with their own kind (Metropolitan Community Church) now found in every city in the country; where gay people come together with 'Christian credibility' to have their worship service and venture forth to do good works in the community. This may be entirely different from the church started in Acts second chapter until the present day churches featuring TV Evangelists, healing absurdities, 'feel good' entertainment, but the drama and drums, bells and smells, of the 20th Century churches like 20th Century parenting, evidently, did not meet the needs of many “unaborted” children seeking an 'abundant life' (John 10:10) and the crucial care afforded all citizens.

Of particular significance, even to that early Corinthian church, found on an isthmus of Greece, a sinful metropolitan area of trouble to Paul, we find him saying that homosexuals, like adulterers, can be forgiven. “Know you not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortionists, shall inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you: but you are washed, but you are sanctified, but you are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.” (1 Cor 6:9-11)

Billy Graham, famed evangelist, one who knows the frailties of humanity said, “Don't take credit for your failure to fall into the temptations that have overtaken others.” Today, more so than even 20 years ago, there are many reputable, credible resources you can go to for help. Most pastors, most parents, are afraid to even broach the subject, and many so-called specialists in this area know nothing about it. Our blessed Lord knew about gay activity and other sexual activity, abortion and other sins, before they ever happened. He shed his precious blood on Calvary's cross for all these sins and stands ready to forgive and forget. Don't make things worse than they already are with sex change surgery. The proffering of gay clubs and gay churches, the stench in the very nostrils of God by pretending that a same sex union is marriage, the enigmatic scourge of every ethos pretending to be acceptable.

Living for Jesus- Hymn

Living for Jesus a life that is true;
striving to please him in all that I do,
yielding allegiance, glad hearted and free,
this is the pathway of blessing for me.
Living for Jesus wherever I am,
doing each duty in his holy name,
willing to suffer affliction or loss,
deeming each trial a part of my cross.